Posted by: Marianty on: February 26, 2010
The hardest part of helping a friend with a gambling addiction is getting them to accept it. Once you have managed to be sensitive enough to get your friend to start seeing the person he has become they will still need a lot of support.
Realizing that there is a problem will not be enough for your friend to overcome a gambling addiction, you will need to be there for them and give them support because they will need it. We recomment that you encourage a gambling addict to read our previous articles because we discussed some tips for helping yourself to overcome a gambling addiction.
We advice that you tell your friend to go to therapy, gambling addiction is a serious problem and therapy can really help them. If you go back to our gambling addiction articles you will find that it takes a lot of will for an addict to overcome their habits. You should come in at the moments when the person is lacking enough will to do things themselves.
Some of the things you might want to consider doing is spending time with them when they get very anxious, suggest new activities that they may like and try getting involved with them as well. Encourage your friend to set greater goals every two weeks for example, they can diminish the time they spend at the computer gambling gradually and you can provide some type of reward for it or just some words of comfort.
The keywords for helping a friend with a gambling addiction are honesty, sensitivity, support, patience… a lot of patience. We wish you the best in this process if you find yourself helping a friend and reply to this post if you have any other concerns.
Soon we will talk why it is important to talk about gambling addiction in this industry even though gambling is what we promote.